I have learned that there are just somethings about me I have to accept and embrace. It is so easy to fall in the trap of comparison as if God created perfect people. I am fearfully and wonderfully made…with flaws, imperfections and differences. I am not like any one else. Though I know this, there were times when I would find myself reaching, striving, toiling to obtain the impossible.
Then, with His lovingkindness, God would draw me unto Himself to remind me, yet again, that my weakness and defects are all part of His masterpiece. “For you formed my inward parts; you knitted me together in my mother’s womb. I praise you, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made. Wonderful are your works; my soul knows it very well.” Psalm 139:13-14 (ESV)
I now know that self-compassion is self-care. Daily, I must be intentional about treating myself with the same kindness and understanding that I offer others. Acknowledging my imperfections without judgment and accepting my limitations blesses me with confidence and joy. Even now, when I realize I am disparaging myself, I begin to speak boldly of myself in a positive way and thank God for my uniqueness, strengths, gifts and talents. It really changes my perspective, lifts my spirit and defeats the enemy who wants to kill my self-confidence and derail me from the my path.
I am my greatest cheerleader! I literally tell myself, “Girl, I see you!”, •You did that thing!”. Self-compassion has increased my resilience and strengthened my ability to stand in the midst of adversity. It has also increased my faith and intimacy with the Lord. As I embrace myself as His creation, I experience His strength, love and grace needed to walk in my purpose with hope.
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